Past First Date
Joe Miller

So often we talk about how to act on your first date. If you are having problems getting to that first date, then most of these articles mean nothing to you. Read this article, get your first date lined up, then go read the other ones. We all see hot chicks we want to go out with. Most of us often get turned down for that hot first date. Sometimes it can be a simple problem, like our appearance, or it can be something bigger. Let's dig deeper. If a woman sees that you too eager, it will push her away. This is the first and most important reason why a woman won't go out on a first date. If she thinks you are too desperate, then you might as well hang it up.

She will think there is a reason why you are so desperate. Did you just get out of prison? Is the only person you have seen naked in the past 20 years your mother? There has to be a reason in her mind why you are desperate. In your mind it is because you are horny, in her mind it is much more than that. If you are desperate that means you aren't getting the chicks. There has to be a reason for that.

Don't look at her tits the whole time you are talking to her. Try to glance at them when she isn't looking. This will make her think that all you care about is her body, That maybe true, but she doesn't have to know it. Never ever make rude comments about her body. Don't tell her she has a nice ass or a nice pair of boobies. That will ruin your chances for ever.

Don't get too close to her. This will make her step back, for real. People who get too close to you are just freaky. Never leave the house with bad breath or smelling sweaty. You think that is impossible, but it really isn't. Keep some cologne and some mints in your glove compartment in the car. Freshen up a little bit before you go in public. Don't go talking about how your ex is a bitch. This will make her think you are still caught up in that and not want to get involved. Most people don't want to go into a situation where there is confusion.

Don't talk about how much money you have. This is a big mistake. The only women who are interested in hearing this is women who are out for money. Don't ask if you can go to her apartment. This is just stupid. Don't squeeze her so tight that she can't breathe. Don't try to hug or kiss her. This will make her think that you are some kind of pervert out on a work release program. Don't ask her if she has any kids or if she has an ex husband that she has to pay child support to. This will make her think you are digging too much into her personal life.

Okay, now we have covered some of the things not to do. Now that you know them, pay close attention to some of the things you should do. These will help you in your quest of that first date. Keep your hair neatly groomed. Unless you have just got done ridding a bull bare back there is no reason for your hair to be messy. Take a comb along with you. Give your hair a quick combing before you enter a place. Make comment on how she looks. Don't go over board with this. Don't tell her that she has a nice ass and you would like to see it bent over your bed. Tell her that she has beautiful eyes. Tell her that she has soft glowing skin. Little things that will make her feel good about herself and will show that you are paying attention to her.

To be a conversation hog. Let her do some of the talking. If she thinks that you will talk her ear off, then she won't want that first date. Women want to know that you listen to them, not just listen to yourself speak. Ask her out to dinner or something fun. Don't go and ask her to marry you after talking to her for 15 minutes. Work your way up to it. If you follow these steps, you will get that first date you are after. When you know that the first date is going to happen, come back here and read the other articles. This way you will know what to do and what not to do with your new found love!