Different Ideas #1
By Amy Allen

Sex scenarios are fantastic, but at first can be a bit scary, to make them work you need imagination, the right mind set and team work!  Knowing when to stop is very important- if a partner is pushed too far she may never return….

Communication is the key.  Talk to your partner before you begin, make sure that both of you are comfortable with what you are about to do.  Let her know that at any time she can stop if she feels uncomfortable or she can change the direction of events.  It maybe a good idea for you to arrange a word or something that could signal this. 

However, remember that these scenarios should be fun- not a grind- if they are then your with the wrong person...

The scenarios:

1.   This scenario involves one person giving and the other doing all the taking! Don't worry I'm sure you can swap!  The taker lies on her stomach while the giver starts to caress and kiss the back of her.  Start by kissing and stroking all over, but slowly begin to focus on the area from her bum up to her neck.  Use your imagination to keep them interested- tickling, stroking, tapping your fingers anything goes.  Tell your partner to indicate what feels best by sighing or groaning- whatever they feel comfortable with.  If you want to spice this up then why not use massage or baby oil.  As things progress you'll both get hotter and hotter……..

2.   Making love to music can be very sexy, especially when it's to your favourite song.  This scenario involves a bit of research into what are your partners favourite songs and what songs she finds really sexy.  Once you've done this it's easy, compile a tape or CD with all her favorite songs on, then compile a list of his favourite sex habits- for example oral sex, massage etc.  Then associate these with a song and let him pick the song he wants. Then explain to him that as long as that song lasts so does his favourite sexploit…. You can put this scenario into any situation you want, maybe role play a customer and waiter….

3.   This scenario works every time, it's especially great if your partner has a low opinion of you and herself-  does wonders for the self confidence.  Set up a lonely candle where it's easy to access.  Grab your partner and gently persuade her to come upstairs- maybe mention you have a little surprise for her.  Take her upstairs and settle her down in one corner of the room, when she seems comfortable kiss her long and slowly, then blow out the candle.  Next settle yourself down with pictures of your partner, and start to masturbate over them.  The room should be totally pitch black so she won't be able to see what you are doing and her mind will begin to question what the rustling sounds are.  As you carry on let yourself go by adding in the occasional groan and moan, mixed with a heavy sigh. 

By this time her curiosity level will be about to explode, as you get pretty close as well suddenly stop and relight the candle, revealing what you've been doing and your erect penis.  Next her eyes will fall to the pictures of her that you've been using.  Her reaction will be unbelievable, all the doubt inside her will vanish, she now knows that you make her horny and this in turn will make her so horny.  Slowly begin again, and as her anticipation grows move towards her eventually grabbing her hand and guiding her what really turns you on.  As you become more and more excited and about to orgasm watch her face change, she want you more every second.  Just as she is about to pounce you orgasm- too late- time to repay the favour…..

4.   Many couples only have sex in one place - usually the bedroom.  This can become increasingly boring and repetitive- by changing the location of your love making it will bring a whole new dimension to your sex life.  Now you may ask where? Anywhere is the simple answer to that!  Anywhere you fancy as long as it's a change from your normal location.  Trust me you'll be surprised how much this can affect your sex life.  How about this for an idea: tell your partner to set aside a whole weekend free, pack up your car and a tent or a caravan- whatever is easiest for you.   Don't tell her what the weekend entails, surprise her by turning up at her house fully loaded up.  She'll probably diss you but really she loves the idea- trust me! 

Plan you route before you set off, it maybe a good idea to have pre-booked in at your first location- then you could arrange food and candles to be waiting for you- a really great beginning to your trip.  Plan your trip so that every stop- and there has to be plenty! Is in a unique place- or has a unique feature- like a beach or a wildlife park……as the weekend progresses you'll become side tracked from your planned route as you and your partner become more and more adventurous.  This does take a lot of organising- but trust me it is worth it!